
The New Social is about Traditional Values
This morning I was reviewing the plan for the day and reading blog posts and twitter updates when I came across a great quote that I immediately agreed with. The quote was not mentioned within the context of social media, community or customer service, but it started me thinking. The quote was:
“People may forget what you say. They may recall exactly the things you did. But people will never ever forget how you made them feel.”
This struck me as so true when it comes to social media and customer service. That for all the “newness” of social media and technology and gadgetry, the new social is all about traditional engagement and values.
“It is better to be hated than forgotten.”
It is much better to be loved, or yes even hated, than forgotten. Customers who come at your brand with complaints in a fervor, are trying to help you fix your product or service because they like it. If they didn’t, they would simply quit doing business with you.
The rules of engaging customers through social media have not changed. They are no different from what thebasic tenets of effective conversation have always been:
- Be authentic: Customers are smart and savvy and are immediately turned off by anything less..
- Listen: You can’t give a customer what they need without listening, and not just hearing. As Mark Twain said, if we were meant to talk more than listen, we’d have been given two mouths and one ear.
- Be courteous: You can help a customer yet treat them terribly, and you will get negative sentiment from that customer to their social sphere.
- Have empathy: Note I didn’t say “show” empathy. Put yourself in the customer’s place and try to get where they are coming from, and respond accordingly. This will be very evident to the customer.
- Ask questions: You can’t understand the customer’s pain and or true needs without asking qualifying quetions.
- Solicit honest feedback: Ask for feedback on yourself, the product or service, and check back in with them. Never underestimate the power of reaching out to a customer 2-4 weeks after you have assisted them (“Hi, I just want to see if your problem has not reoccurred.
A customer’s experience has by far the greatest impact on a company’s brand, image and reputation. Implementing the common-sense approach above will make your customers feel more engaged with your company. And engaged customers participate more in discussion about the brand, and drive discussions about it’s products and customer service.
As many of you know, I manage social media and community strategy for AT&T Customer Care. There are many places to verify and validate who we are, which you should always do before giving anyone you don’t know your personal information. From our web site at 

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